"I like your big, round eyes".
That is how she starts the conversation.
The conversation that is coming up more often.
The conversation that she asks when her eye is going to be big and round.
And, no, this is not about her beautiful almond shaped eye. Although I believe she's thinking about it too.
Not only does my beautiful Chinese daughter have different shaped eyes than the rest of her family, she has one eye that is different from everyone else. Everyone else.
I know that she is being asked by other kids about her eye. I saw it yesterday during her dance class. We have taught her to have a quick answer and say, "that is how God made me". But that answer is not really sufficing her or the others now. And so this morning, at breakfast, we talked some more about what her answer should be.
Things she can mention is that she had surgery on her eye. And that she had an infection in her eye when she was a baby.
Anybody have any other suggestions?
We are also in the process of making a prosthetic (sclera shell) for her eye. One that will be painted to look like her other eye (she has bad scarring covering her pupil). There are other reasons why she will have the prosthetic, not just cosmetic.
I've not wanted to have it painted, because it will cover up the little bit of sight that she does have. There will be a small hole so that she can still see light. I've been reluctant to have it painted, to just leave it clear, but the more she talks about wanting a "normal-looking" eye, the more I think we need to have it painted. Anybody have any thoughts? Experiences?
I love this beautiful, beautiful girl!! And I think God made her absolutely perfect!!